HOW LONG DOES IT TAKE FOR A ♥ TO HEAL?
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I once read somewhere, that for every year you
spent with someone it takes a month to get over them. That seems so ridiculous to me. So much happens in a year. You can fall in love in a day, so imagine being with someone 4 a year? How can you give a time frame for heartbreak? Time doesn’t heal all wounds. Even the wounds that are healed with time, marks still remain. Though you’ll stop crying someday & stop wishing life to end. You’ll always remember that person and the mark they left on your life. So how long does it take a ♥ to heal? I say NEVER. Some things are too fragile to be fixed. You can patch the wound, but a piece will forever be missing.
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LIE to ME 
Actually, what if you were never in love. What if true love never breaks and so if you broke up with someone then they’re not actually your true love.
I think we have a misconception on what love is. We don’t know what it is! that’s the confusing part. That’s why there’s so much written about it because we’re trying to find out what it is.
So if we don’t know what love is, how can we actually discern with any strength if we’ve fallen in love? or if we’ve been in love? maybe the feelings we had were of passion, lust, pleasure, attraction, or just admiration. But not actually love.
My belief is that, if we are actually in love we will never break up from it. we will be drawn to it, and the other person will be drawn to you. Love is not singular or in the eyes of just one person. But, it takes two people to be in love.
If you have broken up with someone, then maybe you weren’t in love…even though it feels like it. And maybe that’s why it hurts. Because, thought you were.
Comment by Anonynoous February 10, 2009 @ 3:37 amYour right, we don’t know what love is.
I also share your same belief, if one is in love they would never part from it. That statement is so simple yet so profound. If we all knew that and believed it, i think many of us would be spared from heartache. I also believe that we hurt so much after a break-up because we believe we lost a true love or a possible soul mate. But if we look at it as you said, we would never hurt again.
Thanks for your comments, they were very useful and greatly appreciated!
Comment by therevoult February 10, 2009 @ 4:04 amI like the painting/drawing at the beginning of this post. Do I know you? You seem intriging (I can’t spell worth anything) enough, even if I don’t know you, how’d you stumble upn my blog?
Comment by hopeofanotherworld February 10, 2009 @ 8:07 pmIts true wat u said there is no time frame of getting over some one.there are some emotional scars that can never be healed,you can just learn to live with it ,learn from the experience and not let it dominate your life.but the pain caused by that loss still lingers.
Comment by ellie March 9, 2009 @ 2:24 pm